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68 Brahmcharya
Instead , keep your eyes focused downwards and do not make any eye contact . The whole world is a trap . There is no freedom after having been trapped . You will go through life after life and not see an end to it .
A husband who remains yours and who never forgets you for a second is a worthy husband . But this will never happen . So why then mess with these men who are by nature disloyal ?
Therefore , in this day and age , people are not hungry for love . They are hungry for sex . Those who are hungry for love , they will not mind if they do not have sex at all . You have to do darshan of and revere such a person . These people are hungry for sex . Hunger for sex means refuse .
If there is an intense love then there is a worldly life for him . Otherwise the living is for sex as a refuse only . The sexual love is like the necessity of nature . It is like going to the toilet . Is this not nature ' s call ? Sita and Rajchandraji were married , weren ' t they ? When Sita was abducted , Rama ' s chit was in Sita and Sita ' s chit was in Rama . They were not able to have sex for fourteen years , yet their chit was in each other . This is called a marriage . Otherwise these are called nature ' s forces . Nature ' s necessity !
Therefore , it is a problem only if you have a husband , is it not ? But if you have taken a vow of brahmacharya , then there is no sex related problems . And if you have such a Gnan , then your problem is solved .
This lady ’ s firm decision is , ‘ I want to attain moksha within one life . I cannot afford to stay here , therefore I want only one more life ’. Therefore she received all the means to achieve that and she also received the agna of brahmacharya .
Questioner : Will we also have one more life before liberation ?