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other person is not a file for us but we are a file for her?
Dadashri : Then you should get rid of it even sooner.
You should stay firm. Then she will stop making plans. If this
doesn’t work then you can even talk something crazy. You can
say that, ‘If you come before me then I will slap you. You will
not find anyone crazier than me’. This way the file would not
come again. This is the only way to get rid of her.
[10] Sexual Behavior: Dismissal From Group
It is wrong to come to this group of mahatmas and then
have sexual thoughts and impulses towards anyone. Here
everyone comes with full trust.
By coming here all the sins, including sexual sins, that
were committed elsewhere are cleansed. But, the consequences
of the sins that are committed here will have to be paid for in
hell. We can release you of your sins that are already committed,
but you must avoid committing new sins. Here, there is a solution
for the sins that have already been committed.
It is better to get married than to behave as an animal in
sexual matters. What is wrong in getting married? Fulfilling ones
sexual needs by getting married is better. Not getting married
and continuing to be sexually active with many persons is a very
dangerous and earns you the right to go to hell. We cannot have
that here, can we? Having sex with your marital partner is
rightful sex.
Breaking the vow of brahmacharya is a major sin. Breaking
the vow of brahmacharya is a major problem. It is like falling
from a great height. It is like uprooting a ten-year-old tree. Ten
years are wasted, are they not? It is like replanting it all over
again. When the person practicing brahmacharya slips, just for
one day, all is lost.