12 Brahmcharya
the right guru has to be encountered . The guru must not have any element of sexuality . If the guru is sexual in any way , the entire following will go to hell . They would not be able to see human life again . Sexuality of any type does not suit a guru .
No religion accepts sexuality in spiritual matters . Those who accept and allow sexuality in spiritual path are on the wrong path , in fact on the path opposite of liberation , the path to hell . Such wrong and misguided paths and teachers did exist in the past , seeking the Self along with sex .
Questioner : Is that not a form of deterioration in religion ?
Dadashri : Of course , it is deterioration , a severe one at that . These teachers do not go towards moksha and they do not let their followers go either . They go down in lower life forms and take their followers along with them .
Questioner : Despite knowing the transient nature of sexual pleasure , what is the reason for such an intense desire for it ? And how can it be brought under control ?
Dadashri : The world has not known the nature of sexual impulses and desires at all . It can be brought under control only if you know how it arises . But , you do not know under what circumstances they arise . Then how can it be controlled ? No one can control it . A person , who appears to have control , it is actually the result of his prior life ’ s deep inner intent for brahmacharya . Otherwise , the only way one can have control over it is if one finds the root cause of sexuality and puts a stop to it at that point . It is too late to try and stop it once the sexual impulse expresses as an effect . If you want to be free from all sexual impulses , I will show you the way .
Questioner : Gnan is a very critical and important thing for attaining freedom from sex .
Dadashri : Gnan is the only thing that will get rid of all