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lie things were very tough for a while. But GOD…. God spoke to me, questioning me and awakening the things I had always wanted to do in the world and showing me how to do them and produce additional income. He showed me that I could use my 20+ years as a coach/consultant in corporate America to start my own private business. He showed me how I could use my love of writing to write books that empower women all over the world. Once I got started I realized that my set back was really a set up for a come back. Because of my direct experience in struggling to make ends meet I started to research and to take seriously the financial plight and needs of women all over the world. I quickly found out I was not alone. One of the things I realized quickly as I entered the business world on my own was that I was just that… alone and on my own. Most women didn’t work together and those that did were notorious for not doing it very well. So I started a movement in December of 2012 called National Day of Sisterhood designed to help women focus on supporting each other in the community, in business, and in education. Since it is very close to Christmas the aim was that women would be deliberate about supporting women owned businesses. Sisterhood day received a proclamation from the Mayor of Houston its first year, and went on to receive a proclamation from the Texas House of Representatives and welcome from the governor of Texas, and most recently recognition from the United States Congress. 60 Bush (2005) and two from Barack Obama (2012, 2013) I don’t say this to brag. I say this because I KNOW what a position I was in when things got bad for me and I would never want to be in a place where I take my blessings for granted. So I give back and I am teaching other women to give back as well. My most recent realization and heart ache is that women are closer to the poverty line by far between the two genders. Women do 2/3rds of the work in the world, but only own 10% of the wealth and 1% of the land. It was also astounding to me that women grow 75% of the food in the world, but yet make up 80% of those in absolute poverty, living on less than $1.00 a day. I don’t tell you this to bore you. I tell you this because something MUST be done to help these women. And these women at one point included ME! I have since started an organization called Wealthy Sisters Network, designed to bring women together for financial education, empowerment and support for one another and to be deliberate about building generational wealth. Also as a Master Business coach I NOW teach women how to find and generate revenue with our God given talents. Women are natural helpers but the numbers I have shared with you are proof that women often work without requiring payment for our services. I tell people often that I am not anti-male, but I am pro-women. We are the care givers for the world and in order for our children to live better lives, we must I have made it my life’s work to help women understand their gifts and to understand how to translate their gifts into revenue in the world. I know that with the gifts GOD gave me the least of my worries should be how to provide for my family. I know that the things I have gone through on this journey were only to prepare me for the greatness that GOD had stored up for me. Just as he did not make Harriet Tubman a slave just to make her a slave, or Helen Keller blind just to make her blind, he did not bring me to financial struggle just to make me struggle. Just as Harriet Tubman delivered people from slavery as a result of her hardship and Helen Keller helped the blind people of the world as a result of her hardship I am using my hardship to empower women financially all over the world. God willing I will be coming to a neighborhood near you very soon. Please make sure you reach out and say hi. Dawniel Patterson Winningham is a Vice President of Consumer and Community Banking for one of the world’s largest banks. She