Bossy! Magazine Summer 2018 | Page 41

I spoke with a couple women, who held presidential affairs… You may ask why I call it “Presidential Affairs?” These women are married, with kids, and are financially stable and so are their spouses… However, their partners do not fill that void in their sex lives. One of the women states that she has three additional lovers and each of them satisfies her in different ways and she has been carrying these affairs on for over four years, without her spouse even knowing. As I continue to listen I became marveled at how the other women cheered her on in agreeable of the same tradition with no additional strings attached.

I had a chance to revisit the same couples together and asked them have they ever discuss their evolving desires with their partners? To my surprise they all said yes… The couples go on to say that their partner isn’t listening to them and that is why sometimes things do not appear to be what they are behind closed doors when they’re not in the spotlight of family, friends, and associations.

On that note readers I freely advise you to love your partner beyond belief, morals, or standards sometimes the answer is right there in our face and we become blind to the resolutions to healing our love lives with our partners.

Explore more freely and know that sex brings a unique connection between you and your partner. Plus studies have proven it to be a stress reliever, and longer life span. Pay close attention to your partner's actions they may be telling you what’s wrong without verbally addressing it.

-xoxo

Alexis Da Mademoiselle