My last relationship ended because of a failure of commitment on his part and a failure of self-control on my part after a bit over 2 years. Sometimes you can do the right thing in the wrong way. I had done the right thing to end it but I handled it the wrong way and I'm remorseful for the harshness on my part in the ending process, it was not at all a representation of how I loved. We must be careful in the way in which we handle things, we don’t get passes because we are hurt, unsure, uncertain or any other emotions we may be feeling at the time. However, it happens and when it does it is our responsibility to be better. I remember saying wow that felt good to admit. I spend my life writing about a lot of things and I said I think I'll write about me now for a while, It'll be great for the healing process. Sometimes you gotta be gentle with yourself, and other times you have to be downright dirty with you, so that you can grow and after losing love the harvest of growth and bountiful.