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PA R E N T I N G How to Help Young Siblings Bond O ne of my dreams has been for my kids to become great friends with each other -- and it seemed to be coming true at first. When Lena was 3 1/2, she loved entertaining her baby sister, and Annika was enamored of Lena's every move. But when Annika turned into an assertive, destructive 1-year-old, things became more complicated. Though there were times I'd find them giggling together, Annika would also regularly swipe toys, topple Lena's coveted princess figurines, and crowd her space. I wished I could wave a magic wand and make the discord disappear.It turns out that there is a lot parents can do to foster positiv H^K]