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gift full of pepper spray, personal alarms or stun gun, this means that he wanted to keep you safe even when you are apart. His own security reflex are so powerful he ends up giving you self-defense tools and security gadgets. Isn't it more romantic than the usual flowers and chocolates?

4. When Eating, He Sits Beside You and Shares His Food to You

Have you noticed that women sit facing each other, looking into each other's eyes, sharing their feelings, while men sit side by side, talking about what they are watching or what it reminds them of -- external things? Early in dating, a man will sit across from you, but when he becomes comfortable with you, he will want to sit beside you. Sharing a meal is a fundamental human ritual, expressing and building community. Sharing food goes beyond that. Sharing food goes back to the beginnings of our species -- males becoming hunters and bringing back their kill to share with their females, children, and community. He is symbolically providing for you.

These are ways men show love -- through action. To know if he loves you, see what he does.

Dating Divorced Women with Kids is Easy if you know This!

By: Linda Hilton

As a responsible man, what would you do? Here is what would count as brownie points for you.

First, make absolutely sure that it is all alright for you to settle down in life with a woman with kids. If you are clear on this part, approach the woman with as much care and empathy as possible. You don't have to harp on her past, don't keep repeating that Smith was a bad guy and Smith shouldn't have let her down.

Don't make it a point to say something wrong and bad about Smith all the time. She knows that and has come to you to take her out of the rut and give her and her children the future they deserve.

Dating divorced women with kids is not difficult. If you are looking for such a woman, then go for it. Give the woman the respect that she deserves .

In fact, it is said that society accepts mature men dating women with children since that would mean that he is taking on a major responsibility.

Dating may seem to be an easy thing but do you know what it takes in dating women with kids? Well, the issues are many. First you have to understand the woman you are dating has a mindset of her own. You need to put yourself in her shoes. Look at this scenario - She has just been spurned. She has a kid or two and her partner has dumped her.

She may be a brave soul but the initial jolt was too strong. The woman is now all on her own and without the right direction, she would soon be lost. Under this scenario, she finds you and agrees to hold on to you with the hope of settling down once again in life.

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