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How To Use Two Tricks On A Lost Love To Get Her Back (cont.)

by: Jim DeSantis

Tell me the truth. When you see a woman like this, you have a fleeting fantasy about what it would be like to be with her, to hold her, to kiss her, or just to hold hands with her. Your breath shortens a bit and your heart pounds a bit and it ends there. When it comes time to step up to the plate and swing the bat, you tell yourself you will surely be a loser.

Is this familiar? Sure it is.

Now here is a little secret that will give you an edge over 99% of other men:

99% of men are just like you are at this moment. They make excuses for their lack of courage when it comes time to communicate with a very attractive woman. Do you see how this can give you an edge?

Would you like to be among the 1% of men who aren't afraid of being rejected and who know just how to get a date with their dream girl of the moment? These are the guys that know, even if they don't score with every dream girl, the odds are still in their favor. They know that, if they go to bat enough times, they are going to hit home runs. And, they do!

A good salesperson will not quit until they get the seventh "No" when they ask the closing question. That's why they are successful.

Get the point?

In order to have a rich dating life, you have to step up to the plate and swing the bat. You have to keep asking the closing questions.

Did you know that "Babe" Ruth held the record for strike-outs at the same time as holding the record for most home runs in his career? The "Babe" swung at even the bad pitches. He could golf the baseball out of the park!

Here is the #1 reason that most men do not approach women: It is because of a mental block. You are likely suffering from the same problem if you find yourself paralyzed and unable to approach your dream girl of the moment. Let's solve your problem right now.

The first thing you need to do is to learn a new way of thinking about yourself and all women.

This involves convincing yourself that you are really a worthy guy, someone any woman would be lucky to know on an intimate basis. This is an exercise in raising your self esteem which, may I say, is pretty low when it comes to women. Try these self-talk points or make up your own:

"I can have a relationship with almost any woman I choose"

"Because a woman is beautiful doesn't mean I can't have her."

"I love all women and they are attracted to me, too."

"No woman is too classy for me."

"Most guys are afraid to try to date beautiful women. I'm not afraid."

Say these talking points to yourself, out loud if possible, many times a day.

Believe it or not, adopting a positive attitude about yourself and how you view women will make you more attractive and interesting to women. Women read men on an intuitive level, "vibes" if you will, and your high self esteem will show through without you uttering a word.

You may find this second trick takes some hit and miss practice.

You need to discover there is a proven way to successfully communicate. The major problem you have had with approaching attractive women is you simply did not know how to flirt with them in the right ways.

You have watched other guys employ old lame techniques and get rejected time and again. And, without one of the successful 1% to teach you the right way, you will remain among the failing 99%.

It's a proven fact, creating a connection comes down to one very powerful technique: Knowing how to flirt.

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