BGC News Summer 2016 | Page 2

Message from the Executive Director Lou’s Letter “Treat someone as they are and they will remain that way. Treat them as they can and should be ……” Walk of Hope Tour Curious about life on our campus and in our cottages? Would you like to see first-hand the warm, family-oriented home your support makes possible? Come join us for a tour of our campus and cottages. It’s an hour of wonderful stories, great information and an inside look at where our children live. This is not a fundraising event. Bring only an open heart and a friend. Below are the dates for 2016. You can find more information on our website. Saturdays at 10 a.m. •September 3 •October 1 •November 5 create a supportive but challenging environment. We care about our kids’ futures, not just sometimes, but all the time. We tell our kids we will guarantee them an equal opportunity but not an equal outcome. Sometimes they make an excuse instead of a result, and sometimes our kids are not willing to work for results. Yet, when they are ready to re-commit, we are here for them. Your investment in Boys and Girls Country provides these precious opportunities. Each time I meet one of our kids arriving on their first day, I see such promise in their faces. When we complete our initial admission interviews and hear their backgrounds, we come to realize there are dozens of reasons why our kids You have been there for our We teach our should NOT be doing children for 45 years. With kids to be the well. A study from the help from friends, neighU.S. Department of bors, churches, our Board best they can Health and Human of Directors and the entire be, right now. community, you continue to Services revealed that kids from out-of-home make life better for our kids. placements, like our children, are less That’s why, at Boys and Girls Country, likely to graduate high school (54%), tomorrow will always be better than toare usually unemployed (51%), and are day. What we do here today will change living at a cost to the community (40% a life forever. You see evidence of this are in adult programs or incarcerated). in Alex’s story on the next page. Only 17% of those in the study were described as “self-supporting.” With Last year our last living founder, Mrs. your support, we are turning those Jean Robinson, celebrated her 100th numbers upside down for our children! birthday. Recently, we mourned Ms. Jean’s death. She and her husband We base our strategy on high expecTommy knew the value of challenging tations, low tolerances, Christian love our kids to be the best they could be. and encouragement. We teach our kids They started BGC by focusing on Christo be the best they can be, right now. tianity, education and self-sustaining Every day, each of us is being “interskills. With your investment and God’s viewed” and observed for our next will, we continue to challenge our position in life. In a competitive world, children to imagine themselves in the smallest thing can set us apart. different and better circumstances. When people meet our kids, they tell us about how they noticed their eye “Treat someone as they are and they contact, their handshake or their man- will remain that way. Treat them as ners. They tell us how easy it seems they can and should be, and they will for our kids to pray or talk about God. become as they can and should be.” These skills promote excellence and high expectations. Preparing our kids to become contributing adults is the goal. One of life’s important lessons is that our actions have consequences. We Lou Palma Executive Director Make your contribution online! Give securely online at www.boysandgirlscountry.org/donate 2 Boys and Girls Country News | Summer 2016