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untrust ourselves because our exes told us that we’re crazy or that we were making shit up. We’ve fallen out of sync with our trust center because someone we trusted, even if just a bit, abused us while they ripped from us that which is most sacred-and left us with their fears, their hate, their bullshit distrust. If there is anything that I stress to my community and to my clients, it’s to trust themselves. After all, they put trust in me and in our fellow members; so why not put more trust in them- selves. Why not put more trust in people, period? The totally awesome and cliche thing about ‘learning’ some- thing? We can ‘unlearn’ things as well. We aren’t born to hate and we’re not born to be dis- trustful. These are things that we learn because of our past ex- periences. But what if we could learn from experiences yet to be had? There is something that I’ve learned as I continue on this path that my heart and soul KNOW are the right ones for me: I have this incredible gift to see the good in people, wherever it may lurk. I could have taken my teachings of untrusting myself and others and spread that like wildfire across my world. But I didn’t. I never will. There is good in me. I trust that. Unlearning Untrust I leave you with this question: who do you trust more? Yourself or the person sitting next to you? Why? What has that person ever done for you to make you trust them so?  About the Author Brittany is not only a light worker and shadow sherpa (helping clients through their inner shadows) but she is the CEO and Founder of Clearing the Rain, a company whose mission is to change societal standards around the world, end domestic and sexual violence against women, and empower the fuck out of so many women that she eventually runs herself out of busi- ness. She’s been featured in magazines and blog spots, she’s interviewed with a handful of outlets, but she’s not done yet. Her group, Under the Umbrella, is growing all the time with people who want to change their lives and step into their own true power. Be on the look out for her non-profit, Clearing the Rain Foundation soon! When she’s not doing CEO-type things with her business, she’s riding motorcycle with her hot as fuck husband, playing with her two rambunctious boys, reading, or doing artsy stuff. She also enjoys having family movie nights, digging in the dirt, and does some really amateur photography work.   clearingtherain.com 43