Badassery Magazine July2017-Issue | Page 50

Rather it is something that has been ingrained in us since we were small children. Watching my son being told he can not wear a skirt because it’s a “girls” thing made me realize it is no wonder we have no idea what we want to do or how to go after it. We have been told from the time we were conscious what and who we are allowed to do and be. And far worse than being told we are wrong, it was often packaged with the best of intentions. And so Creative Mermaids was born. I wanted to give what I so des- perately needed: a place for cre- atives to dive deep and start un- covering what is blocking them. To find out what they really want and to explore it in a safe space. I like to think of it as getting to channel your inner Anais Ninn. Because that woman knew how to dive deep and scratch past the crap that got in her way. And she knew how to roll with it because in her words “perfection is static and I am in full motion.” And so now I make the time to write, to get the journals ready, to make mistakes and learn from them as I go in my business. No more waiting until it is ready before turning up or making the time. About the Author Sherrie McCarthy is chief mermaid at Creative Mermaids and writer at booksboatsandbabes.com. Her lifelong obsession with journaling made her realize that as much as she loves writing what she really wants is to help people heal through writing and journaling. And so she created the Creative Mermaids. Like mermaids, this is not surface level stuff. Creative Mermaids are not afraid of the depths. We dive deep here. creativemermaids.com    49 Am I or my fledgling business perfect? Hell no. But I am in full motion. And that feels so much better than lying still. 