Badassery Magazine Issue 6 | Page 17

It’s challenging, scary and exhilarating all at the same time. So let me just share a little secret with you that will make all the difference. Come here… A lil closer... *Whispers* Gratitude. Yup. Gratitude. It’s the secret sauce that will make this whole journey that much more impactful and easier to handle. Gratitude when working towards your goals can have an amazing impact on your perspective of your trajectory. Gratitude can pull you out of your low points and help you soar higher during your high points. Oxford dictionary defines gratitude as “the quality of being thankful; readiness to show appreciation for and to return kindness.” It is gratitude that will keep you in the game when the journey gets tough. It’s gratitude that will allow you to be kind to yourself when life gets heavy. So often it is easy for you to get caught up in the “why me’s?!” *Insert ugly cry face* However, what if you shouted out your gratitude for being in that situation to begin with. I challenge you to think about all of the people who don’t even have the cojones to go after their goals. Look at you already out here trying to make things happen. So many people don’t even get out of their heads, get out of the grasp of their fears, long enough to make the progress you’ve made. So for that, you should be grateful. Grateful that you’re a badass who can’t be stopped. Grateful that hard times come because they help you appreciate the good times that much more. It’s your perspective that dictates how long these bad times last. Gratitude is what will help shape your perspective. Gratitude is what will keep you out there crushing it. Gratitude is what will keep you moving forward. Just think, how often when you’re in your low points do you lose sight of what is going right in your life? Gratitude will keep you celebrating all the mini victories that occur each day, mini victories that push you closer to your goals. It’s these mini victories that we so quickly and easily lose sight of. So how can you use gratitude to keep you moving forward? Check out my 3 badass tips to keep your head in the game and moving forward towards your goal! TIP 1: Set an alarm to go off three times a day that prompts you to think of five things you’re grateful for. Don’t be too serious about this and over-think it. Get silly. Get impulsive. Have fun. Express gratitude for the first five things that pop up in your head. Example: That banana you grabbed on your way out the door this am, your favorite shirt was clean enough to wear, the kickass team meeting you led, you didn’t have to wait for the treadmill at the gym, and today was a good hair day! TIP 2: Celebrate your wins, big or small! And I totally mean 16