Badassery Magazine Issue 4 September | Page 11

SUPERWOMAN Before I started my own business, I worked as a practice manager for an oncology clinic. Just a few months before my second child was born, my boss let me know that the clinic was struggling financially, and she might be making some cuts. I wanted to avoid being one of those cuts so, I started looking for a new job. Job hunting while pregnant is not ideal but, I found a great opportunity with a huge corporation, and I went through their interview process - which included several telephone interviews and a Skype meeting. Finally, the day came for the face-to-face interview … and, I was two weeks from my due date. I was huge. And I was extremely intimidated. So, right before the interview I stood in front of the bathroom mirror and put my hands on my hips like Superwoman. I stood there for a good 10-minutes in that pose and gave myself a little pep talk. I walked into that room a superhero and nailed the interview. It is all about staying mentally strong and remembering how far you have come - so you can drive forward to where you want to be. About the Author A study at Harvard (that has been presented as a TED talk), found that standing in that “power pose” reduces the stress hormone cortisol and increases the dominance hormone testosterone. SING It might be the very last thing that you want to do when you are down or ready to quit but, turning on happy music and singing along can do wonders for your attitude and mindset. In fact, a study published in the Journal Of Positive Psychology found that listening to happy music and singing or dancing along can help with depression and will lift your mood. Fake it til you make it doesn’t have to mean being full of crap. With these strategies, it is simply an awesome way to keep your mind focused on the positive so that you stay connected to what motivates you. Jayleen “Jay” Magill is an entrepreneur, blogger, and mommy of three. On her blog readysetgoal.net - she writes about how moms in business or blogging can use productivity systems and business strategies to make progress, achieve their goals, and reduce the ‘mom guilt’ readysetgoal.net  