3 Secrets to
Owning Your O
by Bethany Mullins
O
rgasm can feel like the end all be all, but
it’s just the cherry on top of a mountain of
sexual energy. Problem is, we sit on it too
long and we don’t know how to access it to its full
potential. Our sexuality is a culmination of our
identity as a sexual woman.
Let’s clarify.
Sexuality is not . .
with your partner
a one-night stand
masturbation
past assaults
past orgasms
how sexy you feel
what turns you on
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your clit
or what you want to do to him.
It’s all of it.
Your sexuality is a thumbprint, unlike any others,
it’s a constant revolving door of past experiences and present beliefs. Sexuality is the energy of
connection. Connection with your body, your lover,
your desires, your divinity. It’s incredibly powerful
because it has endless reach and is always creating
more.
Sexuality is whatever you want it to be. You can
decide for it to be erotic, playful, emotional, angry,
intense--you can decide for it to be an animalistic
hunger to fuck.