Badassery Magazine August 2018 Issue 27 | Page 15

but there are plenty which can tip the balance in your favour if you pay attention to them. Start by smiling more often – not fake smiles – real ones! Bring warmth and excitement to your interactions with a genuine smile. Those who flash their pearly whites are perceived to be more approachable and confident. By matching the type of clothing you wear to something your ideal client or partner would wear in viewed as more competent, bold, attractive, and so on. observers for them to form a negative impression. EXTROVERTS ARE MORE LIKELY TO BE SEEN IN A POSITIVE LIGHT What’s more, extroverts are more likely to smile and engage others in conversation (although, this can backfire if they come on too strong), traits which are both markers for confidence and overall likeability. Much to the dismay of introverts, most people who achieve massive success tend to be extroverted in nature. This is no accident – extroverts are open about who they are, giving them an enormous “THOSE WHO FLASH THEIR PEARLY WHITES ARE PERCEIVED TO BE MORE APPROACHABLE AND CONFIDENT” a professional context, you can show that you share standards. Looking the part means you will be advantage from the jump. Unafraid to reveal their true nature, less room is left in the minds of If you are introverted (or just a touch on the nervous/shy side), this might seem like too high a hurdle to jump, but with practice, you can learn how to be present and contribute to conversations by simply forcing yourself to do it. As long as the people in your life realise there is a limit to the amount of interaction you can handle, their impression of you will improve considerably. When the time comes to make an excellent first AUGUST 2018 • 15