A
t the age of 45, I finally
found Tony Robbins. Of
course, I had heard of
him before, and even called and
scheduled a coaching call many
years earlier with someone on his
team, but I canceled the call and
forgot who he was for almost a
decade. other humans who can connect
with our spirits and bring mes-
sages back and forth.
There is something to be said
about timing! Timing IS ev-
erything. At 45, I have already
experienced sexual abuse, mas-
sive loss and grief, regrets, two
failed marriages, a career that
was taking me backwards, 30
years of having a pacemaker and
giving birth to two of the most
fascinating, funny, sarcastic and
loving little humans. Over the course of 12 weeks
I found my tribe. I had been
missing my tribe all these years.
Sure, I had friends, a few very
close friends, but I always felt
like there was something miss-
ing… that I didn’t fit in or think
and feel the same way as most
people in my life. That changed.
At 45, I was unfulfilled, unhap-
py, and worried that I was miss-
ing out—missing out on what?
On getting my career where
I wanted it to be, on having a
successful relationship with a
partner, on financial success and
the ability to know that I would
never need to ask my