Backspin Volume 4, Number 4 | Page 7

letter I ’ m going c o m - pletely off the golf map (well, al- most, and then I’ll circle back) this time to what’s going on in the Land of Narro, Louisiana. Our oldest daughter is getting married. He popped the question, she said yes, and we have until November to get a wedding to- gether. She swears it’s going to be small, but the “buts” keep rolling in. But I have to invite this per- son. But I really want this look. But I love this style. When Jake and I got mar- ried, the only reason we didn’t hop a flight for Vegas is be- cause my mother looked at me like she would throw me off a bridge when I suggested it. Then, she did the, “If that’s what you really want ...” thing. So, we had a really cool wed- ding and party to follow with right at 100 people. For us, that’s impressive. I do have the benefit that as a daughter of an immigrant, my dad’s family is 5,000 miles away. While I would have loved every one of them to be there, that cut the guest list in a big way. But my mom is one of five children, and Jake’s mom is one of five. See how this could get out of hand quick? But it didn’t. We had a ball. And we want to do the same thing for Alex. She is sensible. She knows there is not an endless bank account. But she wants to have fun too. The one thing that has really touched our hearts is that she is looking at golf course weddings, and I have to tell you about Carter Plantation. We were completely shocked at the affordable ven- ue. While it has been com- pletely renovated since it took on flood waters in August and has all the amenities any bride could dream up, it’s a heck of a deal. Food, some decor, tables, chairs, coordinator, rooms to stay. It has it all. No, Bill and Andre Cald- well did not ask me to write this. And while they are huge supporters and contributors to this publication, I wasn’t going to ask about having a wedding there because I thought for sure I would have to take out an additional mortgage on the house. Not so, my friends. I ran into one of their recent brides, and she set me straight. You can see the prices on- line if you’re really interested, but I’m sold. And Alex is too. She’s finalizing decisions and a couple of logistical things be- fore she makes up her mind completely, but this place has it all. I would bet that a lot of oth- er courses also offer packages and deals that would surprise me. I’m relieved and excited at the same time. The back- drop for this wedding is going to be stunning. Alex already knows where everyone’s going to stand and what they’ll wear. She should because she and her sisters have talked about their weddings their entire lives. Of course, the boys are all ready for their tee times on the day of. They want to stay in the awesome villas so they just have to walk across the street and shower and then walk back to the wedding. This is going to be fun. I can’t wait. If you have anyone thinking about tying the knot, suggest a club. Definitely sug- gest Carter Plantation. Watch over the coming months for the final decisions and the ex- perience. Amber 7