Backspin Volume 3, Issue 5 | Page 7

editor’s letter This is the first issue in what I expect to be several months full of kid stories and junior victories. I’m reminded that not all victories come with playing the game, however. Some are just the lessons learned on the course. One thing that I learned early on in my relationship with Jake is that golf is unlike any other sport in that it’s completely okay to cheer for the other guy. In most other sports, you may see a handshake or words of respect after the game or in the press conference. Not golf. I see players high fiving opponents for good shots, cheering on a great round and then going for a drink afterward. Before I met Jake, I had never seen anything like it. And I can relate completely with that. I love watching the game better than I like play- ing it. The individualism of the sport and the self-policing makes this game perhaps the greatest of all. All sports have penalties, and players can only hope to get away with them. Sometimes, players do. In golf, that is the last thing players want. They don’t get respect for a big play that was the result of half-following rules. They call for rulings, and they call penalties on themselves. What better lesson for a child than to hold himself or herself to a standard that is above that which the world typically celebrates? As a Saints fan, I have typically held my breath to wait and see if “we” get called for a late hit or to find out whether a catch was really a catch. But I’ve never had a question watching golf. There’s a reason we have Rulespin, and we appreciate the contributions of Paul Kruger, Mike Raby and other rules officials like them for reminding us of those rules. I do think that’s part of the interest of the game as well –the mystique involved in the intense rules of the game. If ... then ... but ... words that litter the golf rule book and words I have also seen associated with computer lingo and complicated formulas. That’s golf – a complicated formula. It’s definitely why some of us have a hard time grasping the sport. I’m still going to try, but it’s hard! Fortunately for those of us who still haven’t got it figured out, we can watch those who do. And even if we’re playing terrible, we can get some joy out of others in the group who are just killing it. I know that’s the lesson all the PGA pros will be teaching this summer. What a wonderful gift to give our children. Go learn and enjoy the game, but also make sure you watch and learn from others. Appreciate the skills of those around you. And don’t drive off in the cart while someone else is putting. It’s just rude. Amber 7