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letter I have had the most amazing past few weeks of golf. Thanks to my good friend Andre Caldwell, PGA Professional at Carter Plantation, I was able to play golf with a really nice set of ladies clubs on my golf trip to Gulf Shores. What a trip! It started before I even left the driveway with Pat Mullaly emailing me to let me know that I would be okay playing with them. I have a couple of great articles coming in our tournament slow months of December and January, so stay tuned for stories of how you should approach golf if you’re a beginner and how you should treat a beginning golfer if you’re welcoming someone to the game. Fortunately for me, I had a great experience. I know a lot about golf. I’m well versed in the rules, and I can read a putt pretty well thanks to caddying experience, but I still swing and miss more than I want to. But like all other golfers, those few good swings and sailing golf balls pumped me up! One of the wonderful ladies on the trip, Donna –––, had counted her steps for the day. Something like 11,000. Everyone was proud of me that I had hit 13,500 – more than anyone else. That was until I reminded them that many of my steps were as a result of ball hunting. Good thing we all had a sense of humor. I really could cry thinking about the wonderful lesson I learned on this trip. I don’t think I’ve ever been scared to tackle anything until last month. I learned what I should do to ensure I could get a little experience while also staying out of the way of the players on the trip. I also learned how others should treat new golfers – because that’s exactly how I was treated. They were very encouraging. And I won the Shaheen Cup! What is this cup, you ask? Well, it’s a trophy (or a handmade coffee cup with a turtle on it in my case) that acknowledges someone on the trip ... for something. It has become a tradition on Pam Shehan’s media trips. For me, I won for determination and continuing a slow and steady progress. I like it. I’ll take that to heart. I also learned a few new terms: foot wedge, hand wedge and circle of friends. If you know what those are already, you’re smiling. If you don’t, watch for stories next month! My goal for November is to play with my sweet friends Margie Monteleone and Joyce Chambers. Word on the street (from my tattling husband) is they were pretty upset I played in Gulf Shores when I’ve been promising to play with them for years. Okay, I’m coming. I’m not scared anymore. I was wrestled into a golf trip (didn’t take much), and I found out that lady golfers are freaking awesome. I’m not nervous anymore. I wanna play! Amber 9