Backspin July 2018 | Page 9

letter Jake and I had the wonderful opportunity to work with the VGA Tour this month, and we are very excited to dedicate July’s issue to the effort – particularly since we are now celebrating our wonderful nation. An organization meant to help those who have returned from active duty, this Tour gives veterans a chance to connect with others who have had the same or similar experiences. We have learned that while we respect post traumatic stress as real, living with it has many challenges that often cannot be handled on an individual level. It literally ... takes an army. This army of people knows the questions and realizes there may be no answers – just understanding. People like to be around people who share similar circumstances and experiences – people who get it. Jake and I are not necessarily part of big military families. Jake’s grandfather was part of the Greatest Generation and fought during World Wart II, and his sweet daddy was part of the national guard. My dad’s side of the family includes war veterans, but it didn’t bleed through generations for us as it does for so many military families. Still, we were both raised to respect those who do so much for us and are very proud to be part of a nation that celebrates its veterans and appreciates their commitment to our freedom and way of life. The recent turbulent political environment makes us question our loyalties – to political party, to political issues or simply what our responsibilities are as citizens of America. That breaks my heart, especially when I have the opportunity to hang out with people such as those who have fought for our country – who return to our infighting and ethical battles. They are still fighting for us. They still carry the flag. They wear the colors and boast embroidered U.S. flags on their hats. They stand tall and proud and pat each other on the back. They still care. I know we do too. We care about not only those men, but we also care for our country as a whole. Our country has not gone to pot. We are not hopeless. If you haven’t thanked those who have served our country lately, make it a point to call someone you know and show your gratitude. This July 4th, let your appreciation speak louder than your frustration. It really could make a difference. When all we hear is the fighting and the name calling and it irritates us, imagine how the veterans feel. They are still our heroes. They need to know that. Amber 9