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Positions
Different positions will be more comfortable for different couples, depending on the
angle of the erection and the curvature of the penis. Any position where your knees
are bent and drawn into your chest, whether you are kneeling, lying on your back or on
your side, will probably lead to a more comfortable fuck, or will be a good position to
start from. This position will straighten out the anal canal and the pubo-rectal sling will
draw back to allow smoother entry to the arse.
Relax
If you are relaxed, then you will find it easier and more comfortable to get fucked (yes,
this is what Frankie Goes to Hollywood were singing about). Deep breathing can help
you to relax and allows the arse to relax too. Take your time and make sure you feel
comfortable, physically and emotionally. If you’re feeling tense or pressured, it’s going
to be harder for you to enjoy yourself. If you’re struggling to accommodate his cock, try
clenching your sphincter muscles around it, and then letting them relax.
Lube
Use water-based or silicone-based lubricant if you’re using latex condoms. Avoid using
any lube with nonoxynol-9 in it, as it irritates the lining of the arse and may make sex
more painful, as well as making transmission of HIV easier [2]. There is more informa-
tion on which lubes to use in the HIV and AIDS section of this site.
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