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PERSONAL NARRATIVE Inspired Man With Autism Wants to Reshape Education For All By Matthew PUNTER M y name is Matthew Punter, and I have autism spectrum disorder (ASD), at- tention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), and pathological demand avoidance (PDA). Early this month I was invited to Cambridge University for consideration to study psycholo- gy and behavioral sciences. Unbelievably, two years prior I had the literacy age of a seven-year-old and knew nothing of the world other than its inadequa- cy to help people like myself on the spectrum. Now I stand as a beacon of hope for sufferers let down by an education system not designed by, or for, people like us. I do this by sharing my journey and what I have learned of the disorders as someone with first- hand experience of the ups and downs associated with autism, showing that there are capabilities of the disability. To understand how I got here, it’s important to know where I came from. My first true experience of the education system occurred in the early stages of primary school. Only being a seven-year-old at the time, I did not understand why I saw things differ- ently than other children, but I knew I did, and teach- ers never explained this to me; to be honest, I don’t think they understood either. Due to the fact that I could not make friends and always ended up in alter- cations, I was provided a single desk in the corner of the classroom, facing the wall. As a 20-year-old now, I realize it was no wonder that the children saw me as different and naughty; if only the teachers explained my disorders to my peers, maybe things would have been different. Ultimately, I was excluded from pri- mary school because teachers could no longer cope with my needs; to be fair, I couldn’t cope either. For the next two years I bounced around half a dozen special education needs schools that all tried the same brute force techniques of restraints but to no 70 | Autism Parenting Magazine | Issue 87 avail. Consequently, the local educational authori- ties withdrew their input. It was then all up to me to help myself, and over the next few years of my education absence, I constant- ly fought my disorder until it was under control. This took me until I was 17-years-old. Shortly after my 17th birthday, I was finally ready to learn and re-enter the education system. I contacted a woman named Terri Westmoreland who I came to know at 10 years old as she worked with me on a 1-2-1 basis before the authorities withdrew their support. Terri had found- ed and personally runs a school that specializes in autism called Hope House School. Terri had founded the school with the help of her husband after their