Autism Parenting Magazine Issue 87 (Member's Dashboard) | Page 57

6 AUTISM SOLUTIONS Simple Tips For Helping Someone With Autism Get Into a Routine By Sara JAMIESON, BA S tarting or getting into routines can be diffi- cult for teens and young adults with autism and learning differences. Here are six basic steps you can use to help someone on the spectrum establish normal routines. These steps can be used by anyone looking to ei- ther get back to a routine, start a new one, or help someone else create and follow a routine. Step 1: Finding Motivation It is important to find your personal motivation and answer the question of why this routine is important to you to make it successful. A quick and easy way to do this is to work backward. Think of the big goal you want to accomplish in the next week, month, or semester. Then, ask yourself why you want to accom- plish this goal. For many students, goals are related to becoming more independent or having more overall freedom. Once we have long-term goals, we determine what they might look like. Now we must answer the question, “Why?” For a stu- dent, it might be to earn more money or have more free time. Once you determine what you want, it is easier to motivate yourself to start the daily routines necessary to accomplish your long-term goals. Step 2: Create a Visual Once you know your goal and why you want to ac- complish it, set up visual reminders. This is most im- portant on those days you would rather sleep in or skip a necessary routine like cleaning. It is too easy to get caught up in the day-to-day stressors and forget about what we want to accomplish. Creating a visual can help remind us why a routine is important and help keep our motivation consistent. First, create a visual that works for you. For some, this might simply be writing the goal and the reason why they want to accomplish the goal, and taping it up on their walls. Others might prefer to create pictures to represent goals. For example, if your goal is to be more inde- pendent and have more free time, printing a picture of the things you want to do during your free time, like playing video games, can be a nice addition to the written goal and a statement of why you want to Autism Parenting Magazine | Issue 87 | 57