Autism Parenting Magazine Issue 87 (Member's Dashboard) | Page 55

AUTISM THERAPY Therapy is hard work. Whether it is counseling, speech therapy, occupational therapy, behavioral therapy, etc., your child is spending his/her time developing skills in areas that have been challenging. It’s normal for a child to be tired of therapy every now and then. It’s not normal for every single session to be a battle to get your child in the door! seems pretty simple and straightforward, but I cannot tell you how many times I have had families tell me that they have felt otherwise. If your child can sense the therapist isn’t 100 percent on board, it’s not going to work!  T  herapy is hard work. Whether it is counseling, speech therapy, occupational therapy, behav- ioral therapy, etc., your child is spending his/ her time developing skills in areas that have been challenging. It’s normal for a child to be tired of therapy every now and then. It’s not normal for every single session to be a battle to get your child in the door!  D  oes it feel like an alliance? Is my child aware of and motivated to work toward targets be- cause he/she understands they will ultimately help? And…because he/she trusts the clini- cian who is daring him/her to be courageous? Maybe after looking more closely at your services, you decide it is time to shop around and see what’s available in your area. Finding the right therapist is much more than looking for a five-star Google re- view. Consider trying:  T  alking about services with your tribe of au- tism parents (if you don’t have a real-life group of fellow parents, find a local online support group). Make a note of the names that stand out amongst groups (both good and bad!) and start to create your list.  I  f you do have a provider you have trusted in the past, reach out and ask who he/she would recommend. Providers network and often have insider knowledge as to who may be the best fit for your child.  C  all your insurance provider and request a list of all providers within your network. Services are expensive! Know who you have access to and start making phone calls.  I  nterview your potential providers. Most clini- cians are happy to chat over the phone about your child prior to meeting for an evaluation or first appointment. You know your child best! Talk about the clinician’s philosophy and approach to therapy and consider whether or not that would be a good fit for your child. Taking a moment to step back and consider the con- nection your child has with his/her therapist can have a significant impact on progress. Undoubtedly, it’s easy to get stuck in the hustle of getting to your child’s appointments! However, it can be argued that investing your time and energy in finding the right fit now will lead to greater impact over time/pay div- idends over time. Mallory Griffith, MA, CCC-SLP, is a speech-language pathologist living and working in Fort Collins, CO. In her office, she primarily works with people on the spectrum, coaching social communications skills. Mallory has co-authored two books with her col- league and friend, Rachel Bédard, PhD, including Raising a Child on the Autism Spectrum: Insights from Parents to Parents, and, You’ve Got This!: The Journey from Middle School to College, as told by Students on the Autism Spectrum and Their Par- ents. Website: www.mallorygriffithslp.com Email: [email protected] Autism Parenting Magazine | Issue 87 | 55