Autism Parenting Magazine Issue 87 (Member's Dashboard) | Page 44

APPLIED BEHAVIOR ANALYSIS Behaviors serve some type of purpose. If there is a behavior we want to change, we have to first ask ourselves what the person is trying to communicate; this will provide us with a more informed manner to respond to the situation. 1. A Magnifying Glass represents Observation A magnifying glass allows the person using it to see something up close and personal. When you place a magnifying glass near an object, you will begin to see in more detail the charac- teristics of the object. When you are with your children, remember to continually observe behavior to ensure they are the best people they can be. This means that you should be objective in how you view what they do and the situations that surround them. Just like with a magnifying glass, you might be able to see things that you didn’t see before and dis- cover how certain actions in the environment might affect the children’s behavior (e.g., what happened right before the behavior and what happened right after). 2. A Question Mark represents Why a Behavior is Happening Behaviors serve some type of purpose. If there is a behavior we want to change, we have to first ask ourselves what the person is trying to communicate; this will provide us with a more informed manner to respond to the situation. For a strategy to be successful, we have to make sure it is appropriate to the situation. Once we have identified the reason, we can then incor- porate a strategy specific to that reason. The representation of a question mark can create a visual for what needs to be figured out. 3. A Reward Ribbon represents Reinforcement of Desired Behaviors Many times, we tend to react when we see the more challenging behavior, which makes sense because it’s usually the behavior that can lead to undesired situations. But what hap- pens when we only give attention to challeng- ing behaviors? That’s all we will focus on, and 44 | Autism Parenting Magazine | Issue 87 that is all we will get. Rather than solely focus- ing on the challenging, let’s give attention to the positive behavior, or the behavior that we see little of, and praise! What will happen now? The more we praise the wanted behavior, the more we could potentially begin to see. The Reward Ribbon can create a different manner of approaching the challenging behavior and thus shift a parent’s and caregiver’s perspec- tive to attempt to focus on the positive. 4. Blueprints represent a Plan What would happen if a house was built with- out blueprints or if a journey was completed without a map? This would affect the outcome; we would probably take longer or make many mistakes along the way. And while we may not always be able to plan everything, we should at least try. This means setting yourself and your child up for success. Having a plan when going into different environments (i.e., the communi- ty, a family member’s home, school, the store) ensures success by identifying what may trig- ger certain behaviors and a goal for what may be done about it. 5. Schedule represents Structure and Routine Without a certain frame to refer to, we have no idea what day it is or what we should be doing. To ensure success within our days, we should set up some type of routine to help with the transitions between activities (e.g., a planner or visual schedule that states activities to be completed during the day). This means we should set up a plan for children with autism to engage in slowly; as they practice more, give them more independence with it. This doesn’t mean that we have to set everything up and stick only to that, as this creates rigidity. In- stead, have structure, but plan for flexibility.