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and give back to their communities even in the midst of autism . The proceeds from this book go to autism charities around the world and provide free “ United in Autism ” nights out across the country .
INSPIRATION : Julie says watching her daughter fight day in and day out to fit in a world that is a puzzle to her , inspires her to challenge herself in all that she does . Julie says her daughter has truly exceeded any expectations placed in front of her , and she couldn ’ t be more proud of the impressive young woman she has become .
“ We often focus on the child being the puzzle , but each of our kids is fighting to put together a puzzle of his or her own ,” she adds .
GOALS : Through an online worldwide community and in-person local community events , Julie says her goal is to help as many autism parents as possible connect and support each along this journey . Autism is too big to fight alone . “ Our only hope is to unite together ,” Julie says .
ADVICE FOR FAMILIES AFFECT- ED BY AUTISM : “ Having a child with autism can be physically , emotionally , and financially exhausting . You are not alone . Find other parents online , or even better , in your own community to compare notes with . These parents will be your lifeline .
Remember to take a marathon mindset with the therapy . Unfortunately , this autism thing rarely goes away , so it is important to
also care for yourself , your spouse , and your other children .
Never stop fighting for your child ’ s future , but remember to take joy in who your child is right now . As you know by now , you can ’ t always control your path , so find a way to be at peace within the unexpected twists and turns . Allow yourself to laugh at the ridiculousness of your life . Like the time you pulled her out of the fountain at the shopping mall …. naked . Or the time she danced in front of the stage at a concert and then bowed thinking the applause was for her . Toss aside the judgment of others and allow yourself to be okay with what your family has become . Because of autism , the normal parenting rules no longer apply to you … permission granted to have a little fun with it .
Autism can make you bitter or better . It comes down to a choice . Your choice . The second you have the mental and physical energy , pay it forward . Not only will you be helping someone on the same journey , but you will find a newfound confidence in yourself .”
Website : juliehornok . com Facebook : www . facebook . com / juliehornokunitedinautism The United in Autism Facebook group highlights parents and educators from all over the world .
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