Autism Parenting Magazine Issue 71 (Member's Dashboard) | Page 63

PARENTAL ADVICE ing to please us. What happens when he is 15, and he does not care about pleasing you anymore? Then what happens? You want your child to feel intrinsic pleasure in what he is doing for himself and within himself. That can be taught—and that is one of the most important things you can do for a child. ➢ Rob's guidance on improving self-esteem with older children Rob Bernstein, an educational therapist specializ- ing in autism spectrum disorders, gives you hands-on suggestions for handling your child’s behavioral is- sues. Rob uses a cognitive approach to understand what’s underlying the behaviors so that the issues can be resolved. He has over three decades of experi- ence working with individuals with problematic be- haviors including tantrums, repetitive behaviors, self-destructive behaviors, hitting, cursing, miscom- munication and non-communication, school issues, and difficulties relating to others. Rob is also the par- ent of an adult son who is on the autism spectrum. See his latest video about placement at www.autism- speech.com/single-post/2017/05/15/Finding-the- right-placement-for-your-child. Look for Rob’s new book entitled Uniquely Normal, written to help parents make a difference with their children on the autism spectrum. Email: [email protected] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com Twitter: @autismspeech If you have a question for Rob, please email editor@ autismparentingmagazine.com. Autism Parenting Magazine | Issue 71 | 63