Autism Parenting Magazine Issue 71 (Member's Dashboard) | Page 35

EDUCATION Best Ways to Explain Your ASD Child’s Needs to Teachers By Leigh De SILVA When it comes to autism spectrum disorder (ASD), there can be many misconceptions and misunderstandings in the classroom environment. Sometimes, parents of children with autism in mainstream settings are blamed for their children’s unusual behaviors; teachers may not accept that behaviors they are seeing are typical of autism. T his may be because autism isn’t always apparent when a child can speak and re- spond in appropriate ways for the majority of the school day. Some teachers may label a child’s sensitivities as “grandstanding” or “fussiness” that is enabled or reinforced by parents. Fussy eating, sensory problems, and poor participation in class or on the playground may all be considered social issues caused by poor instruction by parents. Schools and teaching staff most commonly misunderstand the following areas: 1. The child will only eat certain types of foods. Teachers may say, “The child hasn’t been trained to eat healthy food by the parents,” or, “The child hasn’t been introduced to the right foods at the right time, plainly the fault of a disorganized par- ent.” 2. The child has toileting issues. Teachers may say, “The parents are not following the right routines at home, or are too lazy to bother toilet training.” 3. The child has a reduced number of activities he engages in (e.g., computer games) both at school and at home and prefers to play these games rather than play with friends. Teachers may say, “The child should spend time outside or with friends instead. How will the child learn so- cial skills on the computer?” Autism Parenting Magazine | Issue 71 | 35