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Align and Conquer
So, if you don’t address it in the moment,
what do you do? You have to align together
and design a map for how you’re going to
parent as partners.
Aligning as a team is when the two of you
come together, share your perspectives,
figure out your triggers and align on how you
are going to deal with parenting situations.
When you do that, you create something
really special together. And in turn, you
show your children how to navigate conflict
in a positive way.
You each have triggers, and that’s ok! That’s
not a bad thing. If you didn’t have triggers
there’d be nothing to grow against.
Dealing with conflict is like muscle-building.
lf you don’t give your muscles some kind of
resistance or force, they don’t get stronger. If
you want to build muscle, you work it. You give
it something to work against and it’ll grow.
Nobody likes conflict with their partner. But
this is a gift. It’s a chance to grow, learn
and come closer together with your partner
through alignment. I know we look at this
as a problem. The truth is, when you have
awareness, it becomes a gift.
We’ve created the Relationship Breakthrough
QuickStart program so that you can take
that awareness and turn it into a solution,
one that will let you and your partner build
and grow together. If you’re ready to step out
of nagging and scolding and transform your
relationship, it’s time to get started!
Aligning as a team is
when the two of you
come together, share
your perspectives,
figure out your triggers
and align on how you
are going to deal with
parenting situations.
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