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Embracing the Unknown
on the Path to
FERTILITY
BY KERRIE WEARING
BY HEATHER GRZYCH
The process of creation is not one that can
be controlled — there are so many unknowns
— and this can be a little unsettling for a lot
of women. However, creation emerges out
of vulnerability and even darkness. Creation
is dominated by unseen forces that later give
rise to something tangible and seen.
If you are considering having a child and
you want the experience to be as joyous
as possible, then first you must understand
the process of how things are created and
surrender to it. Creation comes from the
need for change. It doesn’t come when
things are in perfect order. Otherwise, you
wouldn’t need anything different to happen
in your life; there would be no space for
something new.
There are variations on how conception
occurs. Some women surrender to this
process easily, and some after a glass of
wine. Some women need to have doctors
do it for them. Even when a woman goes
to see a doctor for IVF or egg freezing or
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