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The students that get the greatest success with the 8 Step Relationship Transformation System ® I ’ m teaching you , come back to the Vision exercise every so often and redo it from a better place !
Are you ready to start creating your Relationship Vision ?

YOU CAN START WITH ANSWERING ONE JOURNAL QUESTION …

“ My ultimate relationship would be like …”

As you walk through the exercise of exploring your relationship vision , focus your intention on the “ relationship ” that you want , not the partner . Don ’ t limit yourself or your visioning by your partner , your current circumstances or anything . Let your imagination take over and consider this a fantasy exercise .
For example : Journal your thoughts and feelings using relationship focus , like “ my relationship would be playful ”. And avoid partner focus like “ my partner would be playful ”.
Focusing on your partner is a form of blame . And when you blame , you place all the power to change things in the hands of the person you are blaming and render yourself powerless . Don ’ t do that . Focus on the relationship and what you want to create .

And suspend the disbelief that you can create it someday .

If you had told me 15 years ago when my husband was walking out the door , that today we would be wildly passionate for each other , rock-solid , indestructible and teaching thousands of people around the world to create the same unshakable love and unleashed passion for themselves … I would have told you that you were crazy .
And yet , here we are … doing exactly that and living in a relationship so far past anything I could have ever dreamed up back then ! So everything is possible darling ! Suspend disbelief ! If I can do it , YOU can do it too !
Just getting clear on what you want to create , will empower you with confidence , purpose , meaning and the joy of living intentionally …. instead of living another day in your relationship by default .
Stacey Martino - Sought after Relationship Expert Stacey Martino knows that it only takes ONE partner to transform a relationship … ANY relationship !
Stacey and her husband Paul empower individuals with the tools & strategies to transform their relationship … and you don ’ t need your partner to participate in the process , for you to get the results you want in your relationship !
Stacey and Paul are the founders of RelationshipDevelopment . org and creators of RelationshipU ®. Today , through their programs and live events , Stacey and Paul help thousands of people transform their love relationship ! And as a happy bonus , you get to apply the same strategies to improve all your relationships .
Trained and certified by Tony Robbins , Stacey is a certified marriage educator and divorce preventionist . An international best-selling author , Stacey is a sought-after relationship expert , passionate and engaging speaker and media guest and is the Relationship Expert for Aspire Magazine .
A better relationship begins here . Access your FREE online training , How to Get Unshakable Love & Unleashed Passion in Your Relationship ( Even If Your Partner Refuses to Change )
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