Aspire Magazine: Inspiration for a Woman's Soul.(TM) Oct/Nov 2018 Aspire Mag Full Issue | Page 82
impacts more of your life than any other
relationship you will ever have. those things, and now it’s busy, stressful and
you’ve had sex 3 times this year.”
If you have a plan for the freaking grocery
store, maybe you want to take this opportunity
to create a vision for your love relationship! This is VERY normal. There’s nothing
wrong with you! That’s your brain talking to
you. It’s what we call your “drunk monkey
brain”. It’s the negative self-talk that is
always chatting away. And it only sees your
current reality or past experiences as proof
of what you CAN be.
Creating this vision is the first step in
bringing more confidence, purposefulness,
empowerment and passion into your
relationship transformation journey!
It’s time to get crystal clear on what
specifically is the relationship that makes
your heart sing…so you can start creating it
“BEGIN WITH THE
END IN MIND.”
– Steven Covey
in the steps of the system that follow.
If you want to be successful in creating your
relationship by design, there’s one thing you
need to know…you will do this Relationship
Vision process MORE than once!
WHY?
As with any visualization process, you will
create what you visualize with absolute
belief. What you manifest is based on your
energy, not your words.
For example, when you first attempt to
create your relationship vision, you may say
to yourself, “My relationship is fun, playful
and full of passion.”
But your inner voice tells you “Yeah, it WAS
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But there’s a part of you that knows that is
not true. There’s a part of you that knows
that MANY times over, you have created
or accomplished something you had never
done before. The part of you that absolutely
believes in new possibility. That’s the part
you want to use to create your vision.
But there’s a ninja visualizing
secret. Want to know what it is?
Start creating NEW results in your life every
day, and when you go to visualize the next
time, you will BELIEVE your vision more
than you did the last time!
Our students tell me this every day! One
student just posted the other day that she did
her Relationship Vision exercise again after
just 5 months of creating transformations
in her marriage and she could not believe
how much more certainty she had about the
vision she wrote. And, as an extra bonus,
after taking such positive action and seeing
real results for a few months, the vision
that came through her for the relationship
she REALLY wants was much bigger and
more amazing then the vision she wrote
five months prior, when she was hurting,
frustrated and feeling stuck.
That’s how it really works!
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