Aspire Magazine: Inspiration for a Woman's Soul.(TM) Oct/Nov 2018 Aspire Mag Full Issue | Page 41

That is because as women, we are governed
by our feelings more than our thoughts. We
cannot just will something into being or if we
can, we do not sustain it for very long.
Usually this shows up as:
• We start out excited and then we
give up.
• We want a great relationship, yet
no matter what, we find ourselves
settling for less.
• We want to lose weight and yet, we
just cannot seem to ever achieve
our goals.
• 
We want to launch a dream
business and yet it never seems
to takeoff.
• 
We want to make a big impact
on our evolving world and yet we
can’t seem to get out of their fear
of visibility.
• We want more money flow and yet
end up financially drained.
• 
We want to break out of
codependency and yet we find
ourselves still in that trap of
unhealthy self-sacrifice.
We will know that there are no traces of past
conditioning holding us back, when we can say
we are being fully our authentic selves and well
on our way to thriving in all areas of our lives
with no more inner barriers holding us back.
Why do so many of us “do the same thing
and get the same results” when we desire a
different outcome?
In my years of experience, here is one
conditioned pattern that, for many women,
underlies our difficulty in manifesting our
dreams for our lives:
It is an underlying trance
of unworthiness.
To some degree or another, the traces of
this trance will, if not fully uncovered and
released, keep us from accomplishing our
destiny.
The degree and intensity that this trance
shows up in women varies, but for most of
us, we have been under its grip for far too
long, no matter how intense or slight it is.
Even when we breakthrough a level of worth,
there could be another level waiting for us to
dissolve, so that we can achieve our dreams
and accomplish our mission.
We will know that there are no traces of past
conditioning holding us back, when we can
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