Aspire Magazine: Inspiration for a Woman's Soul.(TM) Oct/Nov 2014 - Featuring Louise Hay | Page 29

But that’s the problem: it’s only a part. “Be rational,” it says. “Who are you to want so much? Just be happy with what you’ve got.” And so you end up in knots, tossing and turning at four in the morning as the two sides war within you. Which one is telling the truth? Which one is lying? You just can’t tell, and the uncertainty of it is driving you crazy… I KNOW, BECAUSE I’VE BEEN THERE. I’ve always been the financial provider in my family, supporting my husband as he pursues his dream of writing the great American novel, and grateful I could fulfill that role. But one day, about 5 years ago, I knew I wanted more. I had noticed that what I loved most about my work as a midwife was talking with my patients about their hopes for their lives and their families. I realized that I wasn’t just helping them give birth to their babies: I was helping them give birth to their dreams. And then, I had the epiphany, “These women need a midwife for their LIFE!” My personal coaching business was born. I built it while I continued to work the same hours at the hospital. It’s required me to work a lot of late nights and weekends, but when my clients tell me that I’ve helped them accomplish dreams they had all but ASPIRE MAGAZINE WELCOMES STACEY CURNOW AS AN EXPERT COLUMNIST WISDOM & SELF-GROWTH The rest of you thinks about quitting your job and wants to throw up. It worries about being homeless, looking like a loser, and ruining your child’s life. Stacey Curnow is a purpose and success coach who recently left behind a 20-year career in nurse-midwifery – helping women give birth to babies – to help women give birth to their BIG dreams. She is the founder of Midwife for Your Life a website, blog and series of coaching programs especially designed to help women find and live their purpose. Download Stacey’s complimentary Purpose and Passion Guidebook: 6 Steps to Doing Good, Feeling Good and Achieving Your Dreams guidebook. It will inspire you to tap into your deepest desires, claim your true value and identify your soul’s work in order to live your best life. You can get it FREE from her website at www.staceycurnow.com. 29