Aspire Magazine: Inspiration for a Woman's Soul.(TM) June/July 2018 Aspire Mag Full Issue | Page 31

If your predominant mindset is negative, it’s essential that you begin to think positively even if you do not necessarily feel this way at the time. To undo the devastating effect of negative thinking, you need three times as many positive thoughts to create the shift. This tipping point is not easy to achieve, but once you start developing the positive thoughts and perspectives needed to nudge you forward, you broaden and build on them. The moment you react negatively to anything, pause, take a few deep intentional breaths, and shift your attention from your head to your heart. This brings you into coherence with your head and heart so you can access your inner spiritual guidance system and develop a deep trust of yourself. Learning to drop into your heart space in the midst of anxiety helps you sustain a positive mindset. Moreover, it will immediately reduce your anxious symptoms and bring you into physical and emotional balance. When you focus on the flow of energy emanating from your heart, you can feel a distinct coherence as your brain and nervous your negative thoughts, but also empowers you to feel positive in the present moment. It’s important that you lead with your heart and then use your head. When you bypass your brain, you become open to receive spiritual information through your heart to guide you whether it’s a gut feeling, an “a-ha” moment, inkling, or an inner knowing. This “heart- centered” positive mindset takes conscious awareness and with awareness comes the ability to shift your perspective. Become aware of, appreciate, and enhance the positive experiences in your life by bringing Become aware of, appreciate, and enhance the positive experiences in your life by bringing your full attention into the present moment. system vibrationally align with your heart rhythms. You may sense a tingling or warming sensation, a buzzing, goose bumps, or a subtle vibration in parts of your body. The resulting emotional balance not only frees you from being affected by your full attention into the present moment. Being able to dwell on the positive aspects in your life is the essence of moving toward the tipping point of positivity. Real experiences of awe, wonder, joy, warmth, inspiration, happiness, gratefulness, contentment, 31 Take a moment and reflect on a situation where you were faced with a challenge, obstacle, or difficulty. What was your predominant mindset? Did you react from your head space, “Why did this happen to me?” or did you respond from your heart space, “What is this situation revealing to me about myself?” If you reacted by blaming, judging, or berating yourself, you reinforced a negative mindset. This actually feeds your anxiety and creates more worries. Yet, if you responded with trust, confidence, and a resiliency that everything will be ok, you strengthened a positive mindset. Whether you react or respond to the events that happen to you determine a life of anxiety or peace.