Aspire Magazine: Inspiration for a Woman's Soul.(TM) Jun/July 2019 Aspire Magazine FULL Issue | Page 74

you) is the person you must reach for in
times of emotional need. You must know
what your needs are and how to ask for them
to be met. If you are getting signals early on
that your needs are insignificant, this is not
acceptable. Your needs are legitimate. Your
desire to count on another person is valid.
Someone who has historically demonstrated
that he does not respond to your reaches is
not going to be a life partner. If you are always
meeting his needs and it is not mutual, you
should not accept this as normal or okay.
I am confident you have found the many
answers you are looking for if you have been
struggling with romantic interests who are
emotionally unavailable. I believe you now
know what love should look and feel like. I
expect you to not settle for someone who
does not love and respond to you in the
way to which you are entitled. I want you to
realize you have choices and the power to
think and act in ways that attract a loving,
kind, and responsive partner.
“You are in
no way
required to
anyone wh be vulnerable to
o h
the right to as not earned
receive it.”
Dr. Ma
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...realize you have
choices and the
power to think and
act in ways that
attract a loving,
kind, and responsive
partner.
Copyright ©2019 by Dr. Marni Feuerman. Excerpted
from the book Ghosted and Breadcrumbed. Printed
with permission from New World Library — www.
newworldlibrary.com.
Dr. Marni Feuerman - Dr. Feuerman is the author of Ghosted and
Breadcrumbed. She is a licensed social worker and marriage and
family therapist with a private practice counseling htose with
relationship issues. She also trains therapists to do couples therapy
and writes about love relationships for a number of onlin emedia.
She lives in Boca Raton, Florida. Find out more about her work
online at www.drmarnionline.com.