Aspire Magazine: Inspiration for a Woman's Soul.(TM) Feb/Mar 2020 Aspire Magazine FULL Issue | Page 63

Here’s the truth: “your way” is largely rooted in a WANT that you have because you think it will make you happy. You want everyone to eat dinner at the table because that means that you are building connections and being a good mom. You push “Your Way” to feel like a better parent. I know this can be a BIG idea to take in, but all of your “My Ways” are tied to YOUR blueprint, your wants, your beliefs. But you’re not in a family of ONE—you’re in a family of many. Stop trying to use others to quell your fears and give you happiness. COLLABORATE with your spouse on what is best for your WHOLE FAMILY. The second is the belief that if someone doesn’t see it your way they don’t support you. You blame them for not being on the “same page” as you. The truth is that you both bring gifts to the relationship and your family. It’s a good thing that you are different! Creating OUR Way Alignment is a skill, and it can be learned. If you’re ready to stop struggling to convince your partner to change, and you’re ready to collaborate to design alignment, we can teach you the skills & tools to do it. 1. Notice your Accidental Alignment Predicaments 2. Prioritize them to find the most important topic to align on 3. Take action to get to a WIN/WIN on that topic 4. Catch yourself BEFORE you fall back into old patterns Join our next 14-Day Boost for Your Relationship program to get started! It’s time to take charge. You CAN solve the Accidental Alignment Predicament and break the chains of Demand Relationship for your family’s legacy! Stacey Martino - Stacey has proven that it only takes ONE partner to transform a relationship…ANY relationship! Stacey, and her husband Paul are on a mission to empower people to get the Unshakable Love and Unleashed Passion they want in their relationship…even if their partner REFUSES to change! Stacey and Paul, are the founders of RelationshipDevelopment. org and creators of RelationshipU®. Through their revolutionary Relationship Development® methodology, they are changing the way relationship is done! Today, through their strategic coaching, online programs and sold- out live events, Stacey and Paul have helped save thousands of marriages around the world (by working with only one spouse). Trained and certified by Tony Robbins, Stacey is a certified marriage educator, divorce preventionist and strategic interventionist. As a six-time best-selling author, Stacey is a sought-after relationship expert, and is the Relationship Expert for Aspire Magazine. Give your relationship the biggest boost it’s had all year—in just 14 days! Even if Your Partner Doesn’t Want to Change. Join the highly- successful and FREE 14-Day Boost for Your Relationship! Program today! 63 You want to be more gentle in your parenting because you have a FEAR around the way your partner disciplines them. You push “Your Way” to protect you from that fear. Once you have those tools, you’ll be able to: