Aspire Magazine: Inspiration for a Woman's Soul.(TM) Feb/Mar 2020 Aspire Magazine FULL Issue | Page 53

Reaching the truth about
what you value in life is
one of the most powerful
ways of knowing yourself,
your stuff, and your space
intimately. By knowing what
you truly value in life, you
will know how to organize
all that you own. Desiring
a creative and simplified
way to get yourself and
your space organized is a
normal response to living
with clutter. Yet the life you
want to lead — full of activity,
fun, and purpose — is
more important than being
a weary and downtrodden
clutter caretaker. You want
to declutter with grace
and dignity — and with a
professional flair instead of
feeling embarrassed and
flustered.
Typically, the fluster and
frenzy heighten when you
want to find something
important before walking out
the door, and it’s nowhere in
sight, making you late and
anxious. Or you struggle
with an inadequate, failing
system of disorganized,
ever growing piles. To stay
calm and functioning, day to
day, you find yourself hiding
your stuff, shoving it in
drawers, moving it around,
and storing it haphazardly
— but you know this is not
how to live with the stuff
that you love. The round
and round “human in a
hamster wheel” behavior
of going from clutter to
clear and back to clutter is
exhausting. It tires you out
and makes you itch for more
things to covet, instead of
appreciating what
you already own.
From
my
perspective,
getting organized is not
about cleaning up a closet or
a pantry. It’s about analyzing
the causes and personal
challenges associated with
cluttered and disorganized
environments. Realizing that
outer space is a reflection of
the inner self helps motivate
people to look deeper for
the cause of clutter. When a
person’s mood is off-kilter, it
colors how their space will
appear. Instead of living in a
sacred and splendid space,
they will end up living in a
cluttered and out-of-control
space. A cyclone effect
within a home or workspace
is often correlated with inner
turbulence and commotion.
The inner self will also
influence how you look at
what you own and how you
feel about yourself and your
appearance.
For instance, an outfit
you loved a week ago will
suddenly make you feel
miserable, but it’s not the
outfit that is causing your
angst. Feelings come from
your inner self, processing
thoughts and formulating
conclusions about your
life. When the inner self is
cluttered with self-doubt
and insecurity, even the
most elegant clothing won’t
inspire feeling confident
or beautiful. Your inner
state can blind you to the
beauty of life and all the
things that you love. Since
inner, emotional clutter
will trigger physical clutter
over and over again, it’s
important to first declutter
your emotions and your
thoughts.
This
begins
with understanding and
articulating what matters
to you most. Then and
only then will you be able
to move forward with the
Clutter Remedy strategy.
The strategy gives you well-
thought-out and specific
criteria for all the objects
you own, and it helps you
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Instead of wanting to
hurl everything out the
window or into a dumpster,
transforming your life —
and space — with stability
and confidence is the path
to perpetual organized
living. My goal is to help you
become organized forever,
which is accomplished by
examining how you view
yourself, your life, and your
objects.