Aspire Magazine: Inspiration for a Woman's Soul.(TM) Feb/Mar 2020 Aspire Magazine FULL Issue | Page 46

An Awareness Exercise for the Woman Who WORRIES TOO MUCH! BY HOLLY HAZLETT-STEVENS, PHD S haron was a worrier. During most of her waking hours, her mind raced with thoughts of what could go wrong at work or with her kids. She was often restless and on edge, not knowing how to slow down long enough to relax. Lately, this constant tension seemed to spill into every area of her life: she was snapping at her husband, kids, and friends; she couldn’t concentrate at work; and her sex life was practically nonexistent. Sharon’s worry and tension began to take a toll on her body as well. Her stomach was always tied up in knots, her upper back and shoulders ached from constant muscle tension, and she seemed to catch a cold or the flu every time a new bug was going around the office or her children’s school. Sharon considered herself lucky if she got even four hours of sleep at night. Most nights she would lie awake in bed for hours before falling asleep, ironically worrying about the fact that she wasn’t sleeping! 46 www.AspireMAG.net | February / March 2020