Aspire Magazine: Inspiration for a Woman's Soul.(TM) Feb/Mar 2019 Aspire Magazine Full Issue | Page 73

not who we are, it is who we are not.” This speaks to the transformational potential of the Enneagram―which, if used correctly, can guide us into a deeper understanding of our true nature. We can also use the Enneagram as a tool in our relationships to understand those with whom we live and work, and deepen our mutual connections to our shared values and goals. We must understand ourselves fully so we can be in greater control of our actions, reactions, decisions, and attitudes. We need to know what triggers us, what unconscious fears are at play, and which habits and repetitive patterns get in our way. Then, we need to learn to stop judging these things in ourselves, so we can optimize our strengths while showing up in a more compassionate way for others. Understanding our Enneagram personality type can help us unlock our potential as leaders, and also see what holds us back from being effective and impactful. When we understand our inherent strengths as well as our potential limitations, we enliven the leader within us. Approached with integrity and curiosity, the Enneagram can bring a level of self-knowledge that is unparalleled. One of the most important tools I’ve come across on my own inner journey and in the work I do today in the leadership development field is the Enneagram. The Enneagram is a powerful tool for understanding ourselves and those with whom we interact. The modern Enneagram is a synthesis of ancient wisdom and modern psychology. It is a very rich system and a powerful vehicle for transformation which goes far beyond its popularity as a personality typing tool. The term Enneagram is derived from the Greek words ennea, which means nine, and gram, which means something written. The nine personality types are arranged around a symbol, which shows the interactions among the types. Understanding our Enneagram personality type can help us to unlock a greater understanding of who we really are underneath our patterns of behavior. As my teachers, Don Riso and Russ Hudson, often said, “Our Enneagram type is The Nine Types Are: Type One – Perfectionist Type Two – Helper Type Three – Achiever Type Four – Enthusiast Type Five – Investigator Type Six – Loyalists Type Seven – Enthusiast Type Eight – Challenger Type Nine – Peacemaker 73 Often when people think of leaders they think of their boss, a CEO, manager, owner, president etc. What I know to be true is that we all have leadership potential and developing our leadership capacity is important to our relationships and our inner peace. An essential component of leadership development is self-awareness and self-management.