Aspire Magazine: Inspiration for a Woman's Soul.(TM) Feb/Mar 2019 Aspire Magazine Full Issue | Page 68

chart in our relationships that are supposed to be about love? The truth is, you are either BUILDING UP or BREAKING DOWN your relationship in every moment of the day, depending on which side of the chart you are showing up from. Really look at this: When you show up from Demand Relationship you are breaking down your relationship in that moment. When you show up from Relationship Development ® you are building up your relationship in that moment. It’s not happening TO you. YOU are doing this. It’s a choice. 68 You have the power to show up from the Relationship Development side of the chart, equipped with the tools and strategies that really work to get the results that you want. THIS is why everything else you have tried has failed. Book after book, shelf after shelf, all teaching you how to be a better Demand Relationship player, how to “win” at Demand Relationship. The books, the couples counseling, all of it, it’s all rooted in the Demand Relationship paradigm. There’s nothing wrong with you. You didn’t pick wrong. It’s just that everything you’ve been taught, and all that was modeled to you was demand relationship. www.AspireMAG.net | February / March 2019