Aspire Magazine: Inspiration for a Woman's Soul.(TM) Feb/Mar 2019 Aspire Magazine Full Issue | Page 66

In Relationship Development, we learn the skill set of how to show up in our relationships with others in a way that builds up our relationships with them and brings out the best in them, instead of perpetuating what we have always done, that doesn’t get good results. We have epidemic going on of people who are saying, “I’m done. No more relationship.” It wasn’t relationship, it was Demand Relationship that was failing. And so now we have a disposable relationship epidemic that we have been saddled with. Demand Relationship needs to end… There’s another option. It’s the methodology Paul and I discovered and developed… Relationship Development ® . 66 Relationship Development is when you learn how to be happy regardless of what goes on around you and relate in a way that builds up your relationships instead of controlling or oppressing others. In Relationship Development, we don’t use Demand Relationship tactics, like pleasing, compromise, control, guilt, blame, shame, manipulation, punishing, stonewalling, etc. to get what we want. Instead, we do the work to learn how to be happy regardless of what goes on around www.AspireMAG.net | February / March 2019