Aspire Magazine: Inspiration for a Woman's Soul.(TM) Feb/Mar 2019 Aspire Magazine Full Issue | Page 43

3. Perspective It is often difficult to see yourself clearly, because you are blinded by your own judgements and beliefs. Looking at yourself from a different perspective can be helpful to see your truth. Connect to your higher power, the divine, angels, whatever you believe in outside of yourself. Ask to see yourself through the eyes of your higher power. How do they see you? Look at each of the beliefs you have held, ask your higher power to show you the truth of this belief. The answers may come in different ways, maybe a vision, a word in your mind, a feeling, or a knowing of what is true. And the answer may come to you later as you go about your day. Trust whatever comes to you. 4. Choice. Make a conscious choice to embrace your light and your gifts and to share them with others. There is a Cherokee story that says we each have two wolves battling within us, a dark one and a light one. Which one will win? The one that you feed. Are you feeding the fear and shame, or are you feeding love, compassion, and goodness? Make a choice to feed your light by cultivating self- love. Choose to only speak positively about yourself, even when talking to yourself. Treat yourself as your best friend. As you feed the light, it continues to grow and brighten. 5. Recognize and Embrace Your Gifts Be honest with yourself about what your gifts really are. Don’t downplay them or dismiss them. What are you good at? What are your best qualities? What makes you light up when you do it or even talk about it? What brings you joy? Make a list of all these and find ways to incorporate it in your life. As Marianne Williamson said, “Your playing small doesn’t serve the world. There’s nothing enlightening about shrinking so others won’t feel insecure around you. As you let your light shine, you indirectly give others permission to do the same.” Let it shine, let it shine, let it shine! Kris Groth - Kris is a spiritual mentor, energy healer, and bestselling author of Soul-iloquy: A Novel of Healing, Soul Connection & Passion, and Soul-iloquy Companion Journal: A Conversation With Your Soul. She is passionate about helping people connect more deeply to their own truth, to promote healing and restore balance to the body, heart, mind and soul, and to live a soul-connected life. Kris serves clients around the world through her healing, and spiritual mentoring sessions, including powerful custom guided sound healing meditations using crystal singing bowls. Claim your “Sacred Sound Healing Meditation & Affirmation 4-piece gift set.” 43 with. Now is the time to get help to deal with them and allow them to finally heal. It is not a sign of weakness to ask for help, but a sign of strength. You are now strong enough to take the necessary steps to heal and move forward in your life. You can do this!