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impacts more of your life than any other relationship you will ever have .
If you have a plan for the freaking grocery store , maybe you want to take this opportunity to create a vision for your love relationship !
Creating this vision is the first step in bringing more confidence , purposefulness , empowerment and passion into your relationship transformation journey !
It ’ s time to get crystal clear on what specifically is the relationship that makes
your heart sing … so you can start creating it in the steps of the system that follow . If you want to be successful in creating your relationship by design , there ’ s one thing you need to know … you will do this Relationship Vision process MORE than once !
WHY ?
“ BEGIN WITH THE END IN MIND .” – Steven Covey
As with any visualization process , you will create what you visualize with absolute belief . What you manifest is based on your energy , not your words .
For example , when you first attempt to create your relationship vision , you may say to yourself , “ My relationship is fun , playful and full of passion .”
But your inner voice tells you “ Yeah , it WAS those things , and now it ’ s busy , stressful and you ’ ve had sex 3 times this year .”
This is VERY normal . There ’ s nothing wrong with you ! That ’ s your brain talking to you . It ’ s what we call your “ drunk monkey brain ”. It ’ s the negative self-talk that is always chatting away . And it only sees your current reality or past experiences as proof of what you CAN be .
But there ’ s a part of you that knows that is not true . There ’ s a part of you that knows that MANY times over , you have created or accomplished something you had never done before . The part of you that absolutely believes in new possibility . That ’ s the part you want to use to create your vision .
But there ’ s a ninja visualizing secret . Want to know what it is ?
Start creating NEW results in your life every day , and when you go to visualize the next time , you will BELIEVE your vision more than you did the last time !
Our students tell me this every day ! One student just posted the other day that she did her Relationship Vision exercise again after just 5 months of creating transformations in her marriage and she could not believe how much more certainty she had about the vision she wrote . And , as an extra bonus , after taking such positive action and seeing real results for a few months , the vision that came through her for the relationship she REALLY wants was much bigger and more amazing then the vision she wrote five months prior , when she was hurting , frustrated and feeling stuck .
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