Aspire Magazine: Inspiration for a Woman's Soul.(TM) Dec19/Jan20 Aspire Mag FINAL | Page 36

When we
desire to lead
others, we
must be the
change by the
power of our
own presence.
Keeping our eyes and heart fixed upon
helping others awaken to and feel their own
mystery unlocks a power portal and dormant
potential within.
When we desire to lead others, we must
be the change by the power of our own
presence. It is important to be on the lookout
for the “extra plus” in others. Then, to the
extent we have freed ourselves, we can help
others understand their conditioned patterns
so that they can free themselves, awaken to
their sacred purpose and accomplish their
destiny.
When we truly want to help another, our
focus is always on excavating the “pearl of
great price” within them. Once activated,
then we can empower them to create the
optimal conditions for its emergence.
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The most important conditions and attitudes
leaders can embody to help others flourish
in our presence is:
Caring about their well being
Safety
Authenticity and Vulnerability
Confidentiality
Non-judgment
Unconditional Positive Regard
Compassion
Heart-Centered Presence
 SEEN at the heart of themselves no
matter what energy they are in
Faith in the life within them
Celebration of their unique magnificence
and of their wins
The generosity of presence and heart
 Expressing what we see and gratitude
for them
 Empowering them to become their
best selves
Respect for their freedom and choices
It is important to understand that it is not just
about what we do for others that creates this
sacred container for their becoming. It is the
degree of presence to them and the space we
hold for them that creates the vibrational shift.
In order to truly be helpful, refrain from advice-
giving. Ask them questions and help them
activate their guidance system. Empower
them to take inspired action. Let go of any
rescuing, saving or fixing them and activate
their awareness of their sovereignty to become
the best version of themselves. Each of us has
access to the answers within us.
When we live in our hearts and connect
with others at that level, we are in the
miracle zone. When we learn to move with
the intelligence of our hearts, we create
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