Aspire Magazine: Inspiration for a Woman's Soul.(TM) Dec/Jan 2019 Aspire Magazine Final | Page 68

So many times, people who have been living
with boundaries falsely believe that if they
stop putting up boundaries then people are
going to walk all over them.
That would mean going BACKWARDS in
your development.
I’m not talking about that.
You know, there’s another direction you
can go other than backwards. You can
go FORWARD in your development and
elevate to the next level beyond putting up
boundaries for others, establishing your
standards and own yourself.
Now, here’s where most people get tripped
up when I first teach this.
They want to turn all their demands and
boundaries into standards!
Sorry, it doesn’t work that way.
I say this because I care. Your need for control
is really hurting you. I totally get it. I used to
live in an ice tower myself with giant walls.
And my life reflected that low level skill set.
This is why you need to elevate your
relationship skill set to live from standards and
take off the “boundary” training-wheels that
are holding you back from the life you really
want, as the woman you know you can be.
You can learn simple tools and strategies for
how to be happy regardless of what goes on
around you! If you’d like to come to a web
class that I’m doing teaching these tools and
strategies, click HERE.
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