Aspire Magazine: Inspiration for a Woman's Soul.(TM) Aug/Sept 2019 Aspire Mag FINAL | Page 65

TRANSFORMING
Your
Relationship
EMPOWERMENT
Away
BY STACEY MARTINO
C
an you think of something
that made you unhappy in the
last 24 hours? Anything? Can you
recall any kerfuffle or something
that made you unhappy?
It’s not that hard, right?
You might have thought:
• Oh, if I could just get him to... OR
• If this could just go my way….OR
• I  f I could just...(fill in the blank)…
then I could be happy.
We have all had those thoughts.
And here’s the thing: no one else
was put on this planet to make you
happy. So, as long as you’re telling
yourself that HE or SHE needs to
change for YOU to be happy, you’re
holding yourself stuck.
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