Aspire Magazine: Inspiration for a Woman's Soul.(TM) April/May 2020 Aspire Magazine FULL Issue | Page 81

We showed up during the night as if it was the
first time she had ever called for us. Offering
reassurance, security and calmness.
As the adults, we created a process for
what we would and would-not do as part of
supporting our daughter and communicated
it to her calmly and clearly ahead of time.
She was allowed to call for us 3 times in
a night and we would come to her room,
calmly.
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After 3 times, we would still come and not
be mad AND she would have to go to bed
30 minutes earlier the next night and lose
30 minutes of screen time the next day, for
each time she called for us more than the
first 3 times.
After 2 nights, she never called for us more
than 3 times again in a night.
By navigating the situation from a Relationship
Development Parenting approach, not only
did our daughter learn how to sleep without
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Then, the next day, we sat down with her
to work together towards a solution. We
reassured her that we loved her, validated
that it was understandable to be afraid and
committed to her that we will work with her
until we reached a solution (using age-
appropriate phrases).
fears, but we BUILT UP our relationship with
her. Her kerfuffle was an OPPORTUNITY
for us to build up our relationship with her…
which is PRICELESS!