Aspire Magazine: Inspiration for a Woman's Soul.(TM) April/May 2020 Aspire Magazine FULL Issue | Page 78

TRANSFORMING Relationship Your HELP! My Kids are Triggering Me! BY STACEY MARTINO P eople often come to me and say, “My kid is pushing my buttons. How do I get him to stop and behave?” The first problem here is the question itself. When you’re asking, “How do I get my kid to ______________?” Now, I know that you have the best intentions for your kid. AND...when you ask that question, you are focused on trying to get someone else to change, so that you can be happy (and that doesn’t work)…. it’s Demand Parenting™. 78 www.AspireMAG.net | April / May 2020